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  1. I was born again in 1970. I have been a Pentecostal all these years. My present pastor is like all the other pastors I’ve been under, I think. I’m so sensitive that I feel that my pastor is possibly a secret unconditional eternal security guy or, at least, since he calls Once Saved Always Saved people “Christians,” he’s in bed with them. He isn’t strongly doctrinal.
    I’m starting to dislike my church, even though it’s good overall. I hate to look at my pastor because I think immediately that he is encouraging an easy doctrinal approach. How can I tithe in the church with a compromising pastor? To be more exact, I have already left the church and I’m thinking about getting back in there, if only for my wife’s sake. But the sadness and anger would just continue, if I were to do so. I think that almost all of the Pentecostal churches that I’ve been in take the same flimsy stand as my recent pastor.
    I’m 75 and I find that I’ve been blacklisted in the church by two or more ministers. I have been miserable. But I’ve always thought that I should tell pastors and leaders the truth about salvation. I’ve been rejected by every pastor-leader I’ve tried to talk with about the heresies they aren’t addressing through using verses to show the false interpretations from OSAS verses the truth. I’ve been rejected by close to ten of them. Why can’t they at least present verses that are in the “If” Conditional Category? In these two cases I’ve mentioned they don’t need to give out the modern names of the evil false salvation of “Once Saved Always Saved,” etc. (I’m very sad sometimes and actually believe that since these leaders aren’t specifically concerned about OSAS people like I am they might be sinning (because of this).
    I am a former Pentecostal pastor (part-time) in various categories.

    1. Mr. Harvey—

      Thank you so, so much for your heartfelt comment and honesty. I thank you for sharing such a vulnerable piece of your heart and your journey.

      As your sister in Christ, I want to gently encourage you to look at the fruit this constant battle is producing in your life. Scripture tells us that the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, and peace. Right now, by your own admission, this focus has left you feeling miserable, sad, angry, and isolated from fellowship. Also, consider asking: Did Jesus police the pulpits or force leaders to agree with the truth of God’s Word? Once you have shared your thoughts, your responsibility ends, and you must trust God to be the Judge of that pastor’s ministry.

      Regarding your question about tithing and returning for your wife’s sake: scripture shows us that tithing is an act of worship between you and God, not an endorsement of the pastor’s perfect theology. When you give, you are honoring God with your first fruits, and He holds the leadership accountable for how it is used.

      If you return to this church to support your wife, you must do so by laying down the weapon of theological policing. If you walk through those doors looking for compromise, you will find it, and the sadness and anger will continue. But if you return with the sole mission of loving your wife and worshiping the Lord in humility, God can protect your peace.

      No single church will be perfect, because no human is perfect, therefore no pastor can be perfect. I think you should pray about it, but I do encourage you to go back to the church you’ve recently left. I hope this helps you in your journey, God bless you!

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